Everybody wants to look good and dashing but the turning point always comes in and then we say to ourselves “Oh I’m not good looking. So, I should just leave my desire to be handsome”
But what if it wasn’t like that and all this time you have just been dramatic and the biggest critic about your face and looks, what if, in reality, you were handsome and good looking.
And happily, that is the truth, it was just hidden from you but the world, you have the potential to present yourself amazingly, you just need something to get started” some tips to nail your looks”.
Let me ask you what is the most beautiful species present on the planet so far, if you think Dogs then you need to attend your 5th grade again.
The answer is clear “Humans”, what does that mean? That means you are beautiful and handsome too.
Doesn’t matter how much you resist this truth and act as a critic to yourself the reality will never change and the reality is that every human on this planet possesses beauty and handsomeness.
So, stop being a critic about yourself, you just need to do a few things here and there to get the ladies interested in you(maybe they already are).
To clarify and to make you high on to the highest potential of yourself to be handsome.
Here are 5 awesome tips to make you a handsome man or should I say a more handsome man.
“Good grooming is integral, and impeccable style is a must. If you don’t look the part, no one will want to give you time or money.”
– Daymond John
Why you should be grooming/handsome (Always)
There is no reason for you being handsome or being groomed if you haven’t tried being it yet because only those who have tried it know what benefits and amazing traits does it bring to your life.
Observe any successful man on the planet, see them what do you notice? They are dressed up amazingly or at least they are in a presentable manner.
Not only them but see any aspiring man, he too will be dressed good, “Wait we are talking about face. Right?” I know you are asking this question.
The relation between somebody being representable and you being handsome is that both the things are similar.
Why be handsome? What does real grooming mean? What does handsomeness be about?
Do you have a feeling that you may not know about grooming that much well the thing about real grooming means different than what the world or we perceive about it?
The grooming is a lot of basics than being something which is thoroughly tough to follow as per your convenience but it doesn’t mean that you don’t have to do anything.
You have to definitely give your face enough time, your skin definitely needs some attention, and that what it is.
The Groundbreaking thing is not that grooming should be basic but the real groundbreaking thing is that grooming is not only about products and chemicals on your face.
Real grooming is about the suitability, patience, and confidence/bluntness, we are living in a world where everything is taboo and complicated. Surprisingly grooming too is becoming that.
I mean men wearing makeup, nail paints, eyeliners, etc. Grooming is a lot about exposing and taking care of your natural face. Just be groomed but at the same time, you don’t have to kill your masculinity and manliness.
In actual grooming, we should follow the most basic rules first for the best results like, use as much fewer products as possible because that is how it works.
Nowadays, companies and influencers are pushing your buttons to buy and apply more and more products on your handsome face but that is wrong.
The fewer products you use, the More will your face nourish and thus will make you more handsome, mostly it depends on a person’s age and the present face condition but sticking to basics is key which age or conditions doesn’t change.
Your age or face condition can increase your basic products but it can’t make you apply make up or some feminine culture in any way.
For example, A 20-year-old doesn’t need to apply or use an eye cream but a 40-year-old has to. A Person with a good skin can work only using face wash once a day but a person with oily skin has to use it at least twice a day.
But rather than following somebody else’s speculation guide the best way is to follow basics and then sticking to them.
How the world reacts to your Handsome face?
The World sometimes proves itself to be a scary place and it usually happens when we don’t try to establish ourselves in it, improve in it. Whether to be Mentally, Physically, or Spiritually.
Now, Question yourself here, How do the People in this world recognize you? Any person who knows you might have more than one way to recognize you.
Now, Remember this, Your Face is the very first thing anyone notices about you and in you.
Yes, This World recognizes you mostly through your face, and what if it’s not groomed? What if it’s even not washed yet? (just kidding) Will it make you look better?
Well, Definitely not. It’ll make you look worse and your impression of them will surely get spoiled especially when you’re meeting someone new.
Remember, Grooming refers to the things that people do to keep themselves clean and make their face, hair, and skin look nice and it is not a Makeup-thing.
Till now, you know what significance does face bring to anybody’s life perception but that doesn’t mean that you are ugly or people hate you, you are a human and you are too a beautiful person.
The biggest thing you need to understand is that when you are groomed and are looking handsome, the world stays the same but you change in a positive manner.
It makes you have different perspectives about the world, suddenly you feel more good, alive, and confident.
The real world lies beneath you, your soul and it is directly connected to your body, that is why when you are looking handsome or are well dressed, you feel on top of the world.
What do you think big people, celebs, business people always dress well and are very representable because they feel more confident in that way to bring change in the world as well as in their life.
It’s not like it only brings beauty to your personal self but when people see that you look handsome and take care of yourself, that spreads the message of you being an alpha male who snatches the time for himself as well.
Handsome people tend to get passed through any job interview more easily than people who don’t groom themselves. I don’t speak that but studies and researches do.
Being handsome can definitely be amazing for you not only in terms of gaining popularity among ladies (that’s easy) but in other competitive aspects of life too.
The world will go crazy just try it. Why you should always be groomed?
We all know that Our first impression of a person should be Positively Influenced, and Well-Mannered. Some even say that “Our first impression is the last impression”.
Manners are something that a person notices after meeting you via a talk or anything but your face is something that anyone notices by just looking at you.
So, Manners are one of the most powerful elements of our personality but do not forget that your Facial Conditions are also considered as one of them.
With Manners, Body language, etc, you should also be having a groomed, handsome face which surely provides a positive influence of you over to them.
Well, We all feel good when we’re looking good. So, you should also be comfortable with your grooming.
It’s not like you need to have it that way only otherwise you won’t look that much good because looking good is all about feeling good.
It not only benefits your impression on others but also encourages you to be more confident while sitting in your own skin and performing stuff you were afraid to do.
Apart from complications the subtle way to answer why you should be always groomed? is because it makes you do great things and have more confidence.
If still, you are hunting for a more simple answer here it is.
If you are groomed you are in the push mode because you are knowing to be above the average and study to push forward.
It brings amazing and blazing confidence in you which obviously matters the most to prosper in life. Get groomed, be handsome, and enjoy confidence.
“I think grooming is definitely undervalued by men. We all expect women to be fully groomed, which they do. But I also think it’s just as important for a man to look fresh and clean.”
~ Lewis Hamilton
5 tips to be handsome.
There is a particular procedure to everything and to look handsome too there is a procedure but the biggest fun part of this process is that it doesn’t force you to be particular about it.
There are tons of amazing processes to follow and look handsome, tough-easy, long-short, etc but the best are those which stick to the basics of grooming and well as can be followed in an advanced way.
To be very clear with your grooming, I want to say “Keep it simple”. Here are the 5 awesome tips to have an Elegant, Handsome face.
1. Pick up the extra facial hair.
As per our nature, we are so beautiful, I mean look at yourself from a special perspective and judge yourself, can you believe that we can walk, eat, think and most of all communicate.
Not only that but look at us we look good, we have expressions, we love, hate.
By nature, God made us beautiful (doesn’t matter what is your skin color, height, face structure, or physique). You are beautiful and you will be always.
But what does make your nature hide from the world or what is coming between your beauty to stay back? Well, there can be many factors but if we talk about your face.
The biggest barrier is/are facial hair (extra). Who knows you are amazing in your looks but you don’t know it and are believing which is not true.
I was a pretty hairy guy and I hated that but still, I tried my best to look good while being hairy. Everybody used to ask me, “Why are your eyebrows attached?” and I used to say “Because I’m a man”.
My beard was starting to grow from my cheekbones and I didn’t like that, my eyebrows were damn big, facial hair on my whole face.
I didn’t use to feel good and especially when you want to become a model or something, people used to laugh at me when I used to say ” I’ll become a model”.
And just when I was about to think differently from what I was supposed to by universe, I went to a salon and I just said “do whatever you want”, he trimmed my extra hairs on face, and boom.
I was a whole new person with a damn good hot face, I myself got a little crush on my mirror version. So, you can guess how people reacted to my face.
Without kidding and joking around, it truly changed my perceptions about me.
There was a different face of mine under that hair. Go to the salon and ask for eyebrows and cheeks.
You can go for threading but it is very painful. So, if it is your first time a trimmer will be fine.
Be a man, not a Bear.
Do you think you are ugly or not that handsome, Do you think that nobody thinks you are good looking and hot, do you think you can’t change your looks because they are so undesirable.
What if I tell you you are wrong and you are amazingly good looking, you just need to improve a bit. Will your paradigm shift? It will and it will drastically.
The thing is that yes you are amazing and good looking, you just didn’t know it before, go ahead live your life without worrying but I would suggest you stick for a bit.
The only difference (if you pluck your extra facial hair) it will make is that you will be who you really are “a handsome dude”, that is the beauty of plucking, you get to know your real skin type.
You get to know more of your face structure, good exposure to your cheekbones. Not only that but it will also make your face more glowing and fair.
Imagine a rock which is covered by dust for years and now the can’t be seen as it was before.
Does that change the reality of rock? No, because dust is just an appearance covering the reality of rock.
But what are we clean that rock and the dust are gone, the beauty and reality of the rock will come in as an actual appearance of the rock.
That is the phenomenon we have to follow in order to bring out the handsomeness in us. It can be tricky and maybe pain full but I don’t want to hide something which can change your persona totally just because it is tricky or painful.
That is the biggest reason for plucking/removing extra facial hair. Just to see your real face…
Just stand up and go to the barbershop or any salon you like and tell them to remove extra facial hair on your face including your eyebrows.
The next thing you know when you get out of the salon, you are a walking handsome showcase.
Now, let’s talk a bit about your eyebrows. one thing in mind that you don’t want to go really a thing with your eyebrows because if you do that, you will be counted in a feminine sense.
I’ll suggest if your eyebrows are not that massive and hilarious just don’t even think about trimming them.
If your eyebrows are not that thick but are attached to each other then you can clear them out without changing anything else but attachment.
You just have to go to a good salon or to a good barber and he/she will do the work just fine.
There are tons of celebs who pluck there extra facial hair, I can say that almost everybody who is in Hollywood follows this tip/trick/way because this is the most basic rule of grooming.
But for the sake of inspiration here are some of the celebs.
Cooper is a manly guy with a hairy body type but he is definitely groomed too. Thus, he removes his extra facial hair.
Henry as we know is a darling but at the same time a manly inspiration to us.
I just can’t get enough of this guy, I mean he follows like trick and tactic to look good.
2. Hairstyle according to your Face type
Are you that guy who doesn’t matter how much push hard to have a handsome face but what you got is just disappointment and regret?
Well if that is the case then the problem you are facing is not related to your face(in a way) it’s actually your hairstyle which is causing this problem.
We all have different faces and because of that, we need to have different hairstyles. Just imagine an egg with a long hat.
That egg can be you if you don’t follow good ethics and tricks for your hairstyles.
It’s like you just don’t go and wear a particular suit you like, you fist alter the suit according to your body or you directly buy a suit which is altered and is fitting you properly as it should.
The same goes for the hairstyles you go for and select but the only difference is that you don’t push yourself to go and alter your hairstyle according to your face.
Or you just don’t go for the hairstyle which is suitable for your face.
People think of hairstyles as a big and yes it is a big deal but in the correspondence to your face.
Keep one thing in mind, Hairs are for your face, which means your hairstyles should do a favor to your face.
Look at the models and celebs who go for simple hairstyles not because they like simple hair but because they suit their face shape and enhance their look.
It’s not like you have to stick with one hairstyle for your life (nothing bad in that) you can change your hairstyle easily.
For a particular type of face, there are many hairstyles and not only one. Mainly it only varies in the length of your hair.
Nothing to worry just go for the hairstyle that is perfect for you. The Hairstyle which enhances your Handsome face.
Rectangular Face Shape: Face length is the greatest measurement. Forehead, cheekbones, and jawline are similar in size.
Square Face Shape: All measurements are fairly similar. The angle of the jaw is sharp rather than rounded.
Oval Face Shape: Face length is greater than the width of the cheekbones, and the forehead is greater than the jawline. The angle of the jaw is rounded rather than sharp.
Round Face Shape: Cheekbones and face lengths have a similar measurement. They are larger than the forehead and jawline, which also have a similar measurement. The angle of the jaw is soft and much less defined.
Diamond Face Shape: Face length measures largest. Then, in descending order: cheekbones, forehead, and smallest is jawline. The Chin is pointed.
Heart Face Shape: Forehead measures greater than the cheekbones and jawline. The Chin is pointed.
Hairstyles to follow
Rectangle: Avoid adding length, so try a side part, slicked back, or man bun.
Square: Accentuate your strong jawline with an undercut, quiff, or side part.
Oval: This is the most versatile shape, so go crazy with a pompadour, quiff, side part, or buzz cut.
Round: Create angles and elongate your face with a faux hawk, quiff, or pompadour.
Diamond: Offset your broad cheekbones with a textured fringe or side part.
Heart: Balance our your narrow chin with a side part or textured quiff.
Celebs like Brad Pitt, Chris Hemsworth, style their hair according to their face shape and that is one of the reasons why they are the most admired men on the planet. They are surely best at it.
3. Groom according to your Skin.
Look, there are a lot of different types of skin types. Some are oily, whereas some are dry. So, there are several types of skins of humans around this world. So, every skin type requires a bit of a unique process.
Sensitive Skin: If your skin gets easily irritated by a new product, try evaluating your routine with products that are gentle and simple.
So, you’re free to use simple products and there’s no need to buy any specialized product for your skin.
Dry Skin: Exfoliating and moisturizing is the key. It is important to buff away the dead skin.
Otherwise, It’s going to remain dry. Exfoliate once in 10 days and do not exfoliate more than 3 minutes each time you perform it and Moisturize daily.
Normal Skin: If you really don’t have any particular issues, then it’s good for you since you don’t have to worry as much about the product.
I would prefer you to go just like what Sensitive skin is preferred, Simple and Normal products. No specialized products.
You are lucky to have a normal skin type. Please do not become careless about it. Use Gentle and simple products only.
Oily Skin: Overproduction of sebum (our skin’s natural oil) causes oily skin. Wash your face with specific problems fighting face washes.
Do not use a lot of supplements at one time. If you are trying a face wash right now.
Try out not to use any other supplement until you get results from it whether to be negative or positive.
“Simplicity, good taste and grooming are the three fundamentals of good dressing and these do not cost money.”
~ Christian Dior
4. Have a Grooming routine.
We all have a food routine and we follow it in order to have a balanced and proper diet habit. And just like that, we all need to follow a proper Grooming routine. Grooming routine will surely help us maintain our handsomeness.
Let’s start with the basics:
• Wash your face twice a day. (First one after waking up and the other one before sleep).
• Use Products according to your skin type. (As I mentioned above, If your skin type is normal or sensitive).
• Routine your Shaving/Trimming facial hair according to your growth. (If you perform it on your own).
• Become Regular with your barber. Have haircuts between 14-21 days for a haircut routine. (Regular means often here, not daily).
If you start mastering these, you’ll have a perfect grooming routine and you’ll be ready for any occasion at any time. Plus, that confidence level of looking good will also rise up. Handsomeness will be at your peak.
Celebs like Matthew McConaughey, Henry Cavil, Zac Efron, and Jake Gyllenhaal seem to have a perfect grooming routine as they never get old. Seeing the handsome Matthew McConaughey right now seems to be the same as it did 10 years ago. Such a legend.
5. Don’t follow Modern Day Taboos
Please do not follow these Modern-day taboos such as Nail paints, eye makeup, and all the makeup stuff that exists for females.
In this era, Some pop artists inspired and made a lot of people wear them. Such an example is YUNGBLUD, though his songs are catchy that eye makeup of him has influenced many other people to wear it.
The Other thing Popstars like Conan Gray gave us, whose songs are pretty amazing and is also very kind, is that Nail Paints which all our Moms, Sisters, Wife, Girlfriend, or Friends like to wear.
And we don’t think wearing nail paint or eye makeup will make you look cooler than how you will look without that.
Look at your hands, Do you think wearing nail paint will make your hands look more manly? or Do you think wearing eye makeup will make your eyes look raw and manly?
The Answer is definitely No. No one is going to say that you’re looking more masculine with that nail paint or eye makeup. Personally, I really like Nail paints, but only on My mothers, my girlfriend or in simple words, I like it on a girl’s hand only.
The Thing is, Following how the world looks good is not going to make you look good always, that is why we made this blog to help you figure out, Why, When and How you should be grooming yourself.
However many people still believe that wearing nail paint is normal and it is a Modern day’s Men fashion. Some say that it does not counter a man’s Masculinity.
But, doing this for fun at home or anywhere can be fun but taking it is as a fashion might not fit well and good for you as a man.
Yeah, you need to be comfortable in what you wear, and let me remind you one thing here, You are Unique. There is no one on this planet that matches your exact personality or your face.
As I told you, they’re a lot of artists in this world, with that Modern-day Taboo possessions. Whether be Hollywood or Pop culture.
Pop Artists like YUNGBLUD, Conan Gray, and many other including our favorite Harry Styles is one of them. Harry Styles is also spotted wearing nail paints and usually wears Black Nail paints.
Some people also believe that If a man is wearing black nail paint, it wouldn’t interfere with his masculinity.
According to them, it reflects darkness, mystery, boldness, drama, and all other depths compared to the freedom of choosing from all colors in the rainbow.
But we still know that these are just the excuses to put that paint on our nails. And Yeah anything that stands against our masculinity, does conditions us to weaken our own personality.
• Doesn’t matter how much you resist this truth but the reality will never change and i.e, every human on this planet possesses beauty and every man is handsome.
• You are Handsome, Handsome, and Handsome, no matter how much you resist. You just need to bring that out to establish/elaborate it.
• You have to definitely give your face enough time, your skin definitely needs some attention, and that what it is.
• But rather than following somebody else’s speculation guide the best way is to follow basics and then sticking to them.
• Your Face is the very first thing anyone notices about you and in you.
• We all feel good when we’re looking good. So, you should also be comfortable with your grooming.
• Some Basic Tips:
• 1. Pick out extra facial Hair. They prevent your handsomeness to enhance until they are cut off.
• 2. Hairstyle according to your Face shape so that, you’ll bring your handsomeness out.
• 3. Groom according to your skin. Everything should be performed in a proper way and Grooming too.
• 4. Have a Grooming Routine is very important to maintain that handsomeness of yours.
• 5. Don’t Follow Modern Day taboos. These new taboos aren’t a part of grooming but they prevent you from elaborating your handsomeness.
So, Groom it your way. We taught you the basic tips which must be applied to the groom and they will establish uniquely through your hands and according to your face.
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