Kill this Year.

2021 is here and we all are prepared to pack a load of hustle energy for the whole year. We all are saving motivational posts and reels on Instagram.

And also deciding and aiming at what to achieve this year. I know some of you will get this year hustled to the core but what about those who won’t be able to? So, Hustle, Hustle & Hustle.


I know, a lot of you will be losing hope when the very 5th week of your hustle, which will probably make you give up.

But trust me with what I’m gonna discuss in this article is the key that you need to know to Hustle out 2021 to its core.



Ever heard someone say, “That guy, he’s stupid. He doesn’t even know how to trade a pen. And they’re promoting him in every quarter? Goddamn it.” What do you think why would they be doing that? It’s simply because they’re jealous of the other person.



People who tend not to appreciate other person’s progress are the ones, who know it. Who knows that the other person has grown somewhere else further than their position and they are not happy with that. So, they start scratching. So, stop sowing your achievements to each everyone. Especially on social media.



Like, you must have seen people in parties off behind the other person or sometimes in front of them (also ending up apologizing or not agreeing that they said those things). I don’t know why, but I hate these people a lot. These people never accept reality while it is in front of them. They just try to offend them because of the other person’s successes.



So, here we are living in the 21st century, and we have already become so advanced, that a person can travel continent to continent in hours (Means of Transport). advanced, that a person can eat seafood in a place where there’s no sea (Frozen food package). This advanced, that a person can talk to another person while being miles away from each other (Telecommunication).


advanced, that people can capture anything (no matter how big) in a small piece of paper or glass made light-emitting plate. (Photographs and screens). So advanced, that people trade $1299 for an apple, (which has already been bitten by god knows who), and here’s the irony, they sometimes buy a whole Galaxy for almost the same price.



Except for the last one (which was a joke actually), all of these lines reminds us of the advancements that we and our ancestors have done. We are growing every minute in terms of technology. Life is becoming easier and easier in terms of comfort. We’re buying stuff while sitting at home (online shopping). But, in this confident growth of technology, we are becoming lazier and lazier.



Like, we want to become a successful person but at the same time, we don’t want to work on that.



Okay, we admit that this is the system, this has become the culture. But are we standing against it? No, but the successful one is standing and that is the reason why he is at the top. He went against the ordinary which made him stand out from the crowd. He hustled his way out.



In terms of laziness, some of us have crossed the limits. First, we buy houses costlier than we can afford while being ready to dive into the debts by taking huge loans for that house, and then we can’t even do the chores of our very own room. So fantastic it is. Right? That feels easy. Doesn’t it?

Understanding & Analyzing Your Situation.



Well, the sad reality is that this has become the truth. This has become our culture. First, we’re forced to study, which doesn’t help as much as we’re told. (In my case, the school was just a place where I basically developed my social skills and athletic skills, and for the main purpose, the academic skills were way out of the league. As a child, I even learned English by watching movies, listening to music, and by playing video-games).



But still, if your school is good place, which helps you know everything you want to and helps you become the person you want to be, then you are very lucky to have that kind of a school, because just 54 percent of middle schoolers and 46 percent of high schoolers think their studies are relevant, according to new data from the nonprofit YouthTruth.



So, you see for almost half of the students, that knowledge is unnecessary. Not talking about the one’s who don’t have a vision for themselves. Not talking about those who are roaming around thinking life would be easy.



I’m talking about those who have a vision for themselves, Who see themselves somewhere at the top in the near future. Who are actually willing to gain knowledge and experience for their positive growth as a person, as a professional but they can’t because they are studying what is not relevant to what they need to learn in order to become the person they want.



After Education, he is forced to find a good job, no matter if he likes it or not. He just has to make money, no matter if he’s lost his smile. And then the cycle continues.



But that’s not the problem, WE ARE THE PROBLEM.



Most of us are following a lot of different types of people on social media but no one is willing to follow even a single person in real life. They try to upload pictures with happy faces and riches, when in real life, they are not as much happy as they seem to be on their social media.



Everyone dreams of becoming rich but no one works for becoming one. How will they rise above all when they can’t even rise before the sun comes out.



Think. Understand. What do you want to become? Where do you wanna go? Who do you wanna be with? Analyze it.



So, the thing is, first, we need to focus on our environment. The things you’re lacking and more importantly, the things you’re getting to help us become what we want to.



These are the resources that we already have and with their help we



Taking Actions.

Hustle success life



We blame our environment for the problems we can’t overcome but at the same time most of us don’t want to realise that everyone has got their own problems and it is us who who are responsible for our own problems. And the day we take the responsibility of our life on our head, we take control of our life.



People don’t like taking actions because it requires heavy stress, strength, endurance, will power which the ordinary people do not have. Even the Extraordinary at the very start doesn’t have it but it is he himself who generates that energy out of himself and takes action.



The Path to Success is to take massive determined actions

Tony Robbins



We gotta get out of that comfort zone which is already proving itself not to be one. Already making us suffer. So, just get out of that zone. And start working. Stop suffering and start working. Start working on yourself. Start working where you want to be.

Yes, Taking Actions is not an easy task it requires a high potential which we all have somewhere inside us but we just have to let it out.

Taking actions requires a lot of things like, endurance, willpower, etc but you know what? The irony is that it is the least yet the most powerful and effective thing you can do.



You know someone once said to me: “The toughest part of doing anything, whether writing a journal or getting out of bed is to initiate that.” But you must know how to do that. You must know how to hustle, Hustle Hard & Hustle to the hardest core of yours.



Suppose you’re writing a journal, now how do you start? What will you start with? Or Let’s take my example. So, I woke up early and now, I need to get out of the bed, but it’s winters, so I’ll not. “It’s freezing cold! I can’t get out of the bed.” This is what I’ll be telling myself.



But right after that, I’ll tell myself: “I have to get out of bed, ’cause if I don’t then I won’t be able to kick off the day as I planned. The whole schedule would be failed. The time and energy it took for me to do schedule it will now be wasted. I still have the chance, let’s grab it, let’s hustle”



And that is how I’ll get myself up. That is how I’ll cross the toughest part of it. Yes, all levels are tough but the first level’s one of the toughest around here.



Don’t wait until you are ready to take action. Instead, take action to be ready.

Jensen Siaw



So, from now on, whenever you think that, “ohhh…. it’s way too complex or way too hard than I imagined. I can’t do it. I won’t be able to do it.” At that time, “Just think of the hardwork you’ve done and the choices, you’ve already made to get here. The sacrifices that you made, what about that?”



This casual and effective tip will really trick your mind to start hustling whenever you don’t feel like. I would really consider you to try this tactic whenever you’re in that kind of a situation.



I would suggest you to read more and more self-development books. They are really mind-opening. They enlighten you with different philosophies of life and materials and hence you know better, better for anything. I won’t say that it will reduce the number of problems in your life but I can assure you that, it will help you solve more problems than ever.



Your things are your responsibility.



Take accountability for the things you hold, the things you do because as I told you everyone’s got their own problem and they can’t do what you are supposed to.



In an interview, Jordan Peterson (a famous Canadian Psychologist) said that ‘Life is difficult and some people do have it harder than others and sometimes all of us have it very difficult at sometimes in our lives. It’s like, Well, what’s the alternative? You take responsibility for that and try to struggle uphill.



There are two primary choices in life: to accept conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them

Denus Waitley

Hustle is not Just about Working hard, it is about taking responsibility for your life. It means to take accountability for your every fault. It is accepting your current conditions and working things out in a proper way to become better in every perspecrive, in every field.

Through an IG story, Will Smith addressed the topic, “Fault v Responsibility” and the is an abstract of that story.



• “It really doesn’t matter whose fault it is that something is broken. It’s your responsibility to fix it.



• It’s not your fault if your partner cheated and ruined your marriage. But it is for damn sure your responsibility to figure out how to take that pain and how to overcome that and build a happy life for yourself.



• Fault and Responsibility do not go together as socks.



• When something is somebody’s fault we want them to suffer.



• We want them punished.



• We want them to pay.



• We want it to be their responsibility to fix it.



• But that’s not how it works, especially when it’s your heart.



• As long as we’re pointing the finger and stuck in whose fault something is, we’re jammed and trapped into victim mode. And when you’re in victim mode, you’re stuck and suffering.



• The road to power is in taking responsibility.



• Your heart, your life, and your happiness are your responsibility and your responsibility alone.



• Taking Responsibility is not an admission of guilt.



• Taking Responsibility is a recognition of the power that you seize when you stop blaming people.



• Taking Responsibility is an act of emotional self-defense.



• Taking Responsibility is taking your power back.



For full speech, click here.



Helping is the key



A Person’s most useful asset is not a head full of knowledge, but a heart full of love, an ear ready to listen and a hand willing to help others.

Anonymous



Helping others makes us happy and gives us endorphins (Endorphins are chemicals produced by the body to relieve stress and pain). The Universe has shown time and time again that those who serve others are more successful.



You know helping make you feel really good, One study found that people are more likely to perform feats of generosity after observing another do the same. This effect can ripple throughout the community, inspiring dozens of individuals to make a difference.



Which in simple words means that, if you help others, the others around you are likely to do the same. They get that confidence in helping others by watching other people help. Just like how humans tend to yawn when they see the other person yawning.



Helping others, especially those who are less fortunate than yourself, can make you feel more positive about your circumstances. You might feel that not only you but everybody’s got their problems.



But you also need to learn to say no. Yes, you can’t always be there to help everyone. Try to help everyone but when your car is out of fuel, then how are give lifts to others?
Trust me, I’ve been there. I used to help everyone, from a 3 y.o cousin to a 92 y.o Grandfather, from my crushes to strangers, Everyone.



But one day, me and my uncle were at a Birthday Party where he noticed me taking orders from other relatives and helping almost every one of them. He called me and said,

“Look buddy, This is going to hurt you but you know what? I saw you helping each and everyone here even when you had 3-4 tasks yet to do but your only flaw in that is that you say yes to each and everyone who seeks help from you even when you’re already helping someone. I know it’s good to help everyone, but you my boy, this habit of yours to Yes to each and everyone might ruin some great opportunities in your life.”



“When I was your age, I used to do the same, help everyone, but you know what, now I regret it. Not because I helped a lot of people but because I helped them even when my own car was out of fuel. Buddy, Learn to say no, sometimes. You won’t regret it. I promise.”



And that hit me hard. I was kind of confused that whether to help people or not but from the past few months, I have started to feel that thing, I still used to help everyone even when I’ve my important work to do. But now, I have learned to say no to people. I often do.



And now, I’m thankful for his advice and I’m realizing that he wasn’t wrong, he was right though. We have to say no sometimes, the times when we have our important work to do. So, learn to say “NO” when you have your Goddamn important work.



Our Prime Purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can’t help them, atleast don’t hurt them

Dalai Lama



At no point, it will be easy or even Mediocre and don’t give up.



No bud, at no point of this game will be easy or even mediocre. Yes, there will be certain ups and downs. Things are never easy it is we who become trained with time, consistent activity over it.



For e.g, for an old, knowledgeable, and experienced entrepreneur, doing a business may not be that hard as for a new, knowledgeable but inexperienced entrepreneur.



At some point in life, that old, experienced entrepreneur was also a new, inexperienced one but with time, consistent activity over it, he got so used to it or practiced and trained that it is no longer tough for him to handle projects, clients. It’s a normal, not so tough job to do for him.



Don’t pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one

Bruce lee



After making it this far, Just remember that you cannot give up now, you gave up your blood, sweat, and most importantly, time on it. There’s no way out and never was. It’s ane way. This is a stage where most of the dreamers give up, which is indeed their biggest mistake because this is the time when it is about to get settled. You’re about to succeed.



I can’t explain that in words. But I can say, that you will recognize it, choices will be so hard that you may cry on your hands but it will be totally on you. You will feel so pressurized, so pressurized, that you will almost quit. But I know, you will as always take the high road again and once again your will against giving up will win, and thus, making you the person you wanted to become.



The person that you used thinks about all day. But the difference will be that you would now have become so matured and experienced on this track, that you will feel it by yourself.

A wise man once said to me that,



Everytime your will wins, you get one step closer to your goal.

wise man



Summary



• People who tend not to appreciate other person’s progress are the ones, who know it. Who knows that the other person has grown somewhere else further than their position and they are not happy with that. So, they start scratching. So, stop sowing your achievements to each everyone. Especially on social media



• We are growing every minute in terms of technology. Life is becoming easier and easier in terms of comfort. We’re buying stuff while sitting at home (online shopping). But, in this confident growth of technology, we are becoming lazier and lazier.



• In terms of laziness, some of us have crossed the limits. First, we buy houses costlier than we can afford while being ready to dive into the debts by taking huge loans for that house, and then we can’t even do the chores of our very own room.



• Well, the sad reality is that this has become the truth. This has become our culture. First, we’re forced to study, which doesn’t help as much as we’re told. just 54 percent of middle schoolers and 46 percent of high schoolers think their studies are relevant, according to new data from the nonprofit YouthTruth.



• After Education, he is forced to find a good job, no matter if he likes it or not. He just has to make money, no matter if he’s lost his smile. And then the cycle continues. But that’s not the problem, WE ARE THE PROBLEM.



• Most of us are following a lot of different types of people on social media but no one is willing to follow even a single person in real life. They try to upload pictures with happy faces and riches when in real life, they are not as much happy as they seem to be on their social media.



• Everyone dreams of becoming rich but no one works for becoming one. How will they rise above all when they can’t even rise before the sun comes out.



• We blame our environment for the problems we can’t overcome but at the same time, most of us don’t want to realize that everyone has got their problems and it is us who are responsible for our problems. And the day we take the responsibility of our life on our head, we take control of our life.



• We gotta get out of that comfort zone which is already proving itself not to be one. Already making us suffer. So, just get out of that zone. And start working. Stop suffering and start working. Start working on yourself. Start working where you want to be.



• So, from now on, whenever you think that “ohhh… it’s way too complex or way too hard than I imagined. I can’t do it. I won’t be able to do it.” At that time, “Just think of the hard work you’ve done and the choices, you’ve already made to get here. The sacrifices that you made, what about that?” This casual and effective tip will trick your mind to start hustling whenever you don’t feel like it.



• Take accountability for the things you hold, the things you do because as I told you everyone’s got their problem and they can’t do what you are supposed to.



• It’s not your fault if your partner cheated and ruined your marriage. But it is for damn sure your responsibility to figure out how to take that pain and how to overcome that and build a happy life for yourself.



• But you also need to learn to say no. Yes, you can’t always be there to help everyone. Try to help everyone but when your own car is out of fuel, then how are give lifts to others?
Trust me, I’ve been there. I used to help everyone, from a 3 y.o cousin to a 92 y.o Grandfather, from my crushes to strangers, Everyone.



• At no point of this game will be easy or even mediocre. Yes, there will be certain ups and downs. Things are never easy it is we who become trained with time, consistent activity over it.



• After making it this far, Just remember that you cannot give up now, you gave up your blood, sweat, and most importantly, time on it. There’s no way out and never was. It’s ane way. This is a stage where most of the dreamers give up, which is indeed their biggest mistake because this Hustle-time is the time when it is about to get settled. You’re about to succeed.

With this I just want you to keep focusing on your Life Goals and keep doing these 3 things: Hustle Hustle and hustle.

Hustle so hard that you make your family proud. So, Hustle, Hustle & Hustle.

Hustle so hard that all the people who let you down in the past realize what they did wrong to you. So, Hustle, hustle & hustle.

Hustle so hard that every kid around you gets inspired by you. So, hustle, hustle & hustle.

Hustle so hard that you don’t need to introduce yourself to anyone anymore. So, hustle, hustle & hustle.

Hustle Hustle & Hustle.